At Childers Woodgate Funeral Services, we understand the importance of providing comprehensive support and guidance during your time of need. Our caring and professionally trained staff are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, ready to assist you in arranging a personalised farewell that honours the life of your loved one.
Our Role
As funeral directors, our role extends beyond the practical aspects of arranging a funeral. While we assist with the logistical details such as the care of your loved one and coordinating the time and location of the service, we also recognise the growing importance of addressing the celebratory aspects of the funeral. From selecting music to choosing meaningful touches that reflect your loved one’s life, we strive to be your trusted advisor throughout the planning process.
Initial Arrangement Meeting
Our initial face-to-face meeting is designed to provide compassionate support and guidance as you navigate the decisions surrounding the funeral. Whether held in our office or in the comfort of your own home, this meeting allows you to take your time and gather the support of family and friends before making any decisions. During this time, our caring Funeral Directors will assist you in deciding on both practical and celebratory aspects of the service, ensuring that every detail reflects your wishes and honours your loved one’s memory.
What You Can Do In Advance?
In preparation for the arrangement meeting, there are several steps you can take to streamline the process. Whether deciding between burial or cremation, selecting clothing for your loved one, or considering personal notices for the newspaper, taking these proactive measures can help alleviate some of the stress during this challenging time.
After the Arrangement Meeting
Following the initial arrangement meeting, our team continues to work diligently behind the scenes to ensure that every detail of the funeral is executed according to your wishes. We remain in communication with you, providing updates and addressing any concerns that may arise, to ensure that the service is a fitting tribute to your loved one.
On the Day of the Funeral
On the day of the funeral, you will be supported by one of our experienced funeral directors, who will oversee all aspects of the service with professionalism and care. Our primary focus is to ensure that the day proceeds smoothly, allowing you and your family to focus on honouring your loved one’s memory.
After the Funeral
Following the funeral, our support continues as we assist with any remaining arrangements or concerns you may have. Whether delivering ashes or discussing options for memorialization, our dedicated staff are here to provide guidance and support as you navigate this difficult time.
At Childers Woodgate Funeral Services, we are committed to providing compassionate care and support to you and your family throughout every stage of the funeral process. Please do not hesitate to reach out to us if you require any assistance or have any questions.
Choosing a Funeral Director
A Funeral Director is no different to any other professional person whom you may need to call on for a specialised service, such as a doctor, solicitor or accountant. You should carefully consider their qualifications, facilities and ability to service your needs.
Making Funeral Arrangements
The Role of the Funeral Director
Few services are as sensitive and personal as those provided by a funeral director. While we may not be grief experts, we understand the profound distress that comes with the loss of a family member or friend. In times of uncertainty, our professional staff are here to offer guidance and support as you navigate the decisions surrounding the funeral.
Expected or Natural Cause of Death
In the event of an expected or natural cause of death, a doctor must sign a certificate confirming the death before the deceased can be transferred to our funeral home. Whether the death occurs at home, in a nursing home, or in a hospital, our team will ensure that all necessary arrangements are made with care and sensitivity.
Unexpected or Accidental Death
In cases where the cause of death is unclear, involving factors such as accidents or sudden illnesses, the coroner may need to be notified. Our staff are experienced in navigating these situations and will liaise with the appropriate authorities to ensure that the necessary procedures are followed with compassion and professionalism.
How a Funeral Director Can Assist You
From the moment you contact us, our staff are dedicated to providing prompt and personalised attention to every aspect of arranging the funeral. Whether the wishes of the deceased are known or not, we will guide you through the decision-making process with empathy and expertise. Some of the major decisions that need to be made include:
- Choice of burial or cremation.
- Selection of the day, time, and venue of the service.
- Determining who will lead the service—a member of the clergy or a celebrant.
- Deciding whether a viewing is appropriate.
- Choosing a coffin and pallbearers.
- Selecting music, preparing eulogies, and arranging flowers.
- Placing notices in newspapers and organizing charitable donations.
- Personalizing the ceremony to reflect the life of your loved one.
Services Provided by Funeral Directors
Our role extends beyond the immediate arrangements to encompass a comprehensive range of services designed to support you throughout the funeral process. Some of the services we provide include:
- Prompt and personal attention at any time, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
- Transfer of the deceased to the funeral home, including arrangements for deaths away from the hometown.
- Personal consultations with the family to discuss funeral arrangements and service details.
- Liaising with cemeteries, crematoriums, clergy, and other relevant parties.
- Registration of death with the appropriate authorities.
- Assistance with press notices, floral arrangements, and music selection.
- Preparation of the deceased for viewing and provision of memorial attendance books.
- Referral to grief support services if needed.
The Matter of Cost
We understand that cost is an important consideration when arranging a funeral. Our fees cover a range of services, including responding to inquiries, arranging and coordinating the funeral service, attending to administrative and legal documents, and providing care for the deceased. Additionally, we offer a selection of coffins to suit every budget, along with arrangements for burial or cremation fees. We are committed to transparency and will fully explain all costs associated with our services.
Adding the Personal Touches
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- The following is a list of things you could do to personalize the funeral service of the one you love:
- Place personal items inside the coffin—photos, letters, drawings, etc.
- Organize for the deceased’s favourite music to be played.
- Place a photo of the deceased on the coffin for the service.
- Place personal items on the coffin for the service—from a favourite hat to a muchloved painting, it will add to the atmosphere.
- Involve family and friends—to deliver the eulogy, read a poem or religious passages.
- Arrange for clubs or organisations to attend perhaps forming a guard of honour.
- Close family members could place a single flower on the coffin or into the grave as part of the service.
- Arrange for family/friends to act as pallbearers.
- Personalise the coffin with some hand painted designs. (A specialty of Childers Woodgate Funeral Services.)
Discuss these ideas and more with your Funeral Director.
Guidelines for writing a Eulogy
As a helpful guide, the following may be of assistance in preparing a Eulogy:
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- When and where was the deceased born
- Nicknames and/or names known to others
- Parents names—where they met and married
- Brothers and Sisters
- Early childhood—localities and interests
- Schools attended, awards gained
- Academic or trade qualifications and achievements
- Some interesting items about childhood days
- Details of any war or military service
- Details of marriages, divorces, children, significant relationships
- Details of grandchildren/great grandchildren
- Details of any club memberships, position held
- Details of sporting achievements
- Details of any hobbies or interests, travel, crafts, etc.
- Details of historical significance
- Preferences, likes and dislikes
- Details of activities, eg. Music, theatre, etc.
- Any special stories, sayings, qualities that are significant to others
- Special readings, music or poetry to be included
Arranging a Prepaid Funeral
As evidenced by reading through this guide, there are many decisions which need to be made, and a lot of information which is required when someone dies. Arranging a prepaid funeral means most of the decisions and information are already recorded, taking both the financial and emotional burden away from family and friends at such a difficult time.
Some of the benefits to you arranging a prepaid funeral are:
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- You will feel better knowing that your affairs are in order.
- It is a great relief to know that your wishes will be carried out. It allows you to consider the alternatives and make decisions at your leisure, without the pressure of an imminent funeral.
- It enables you to arrange your own funeral details and pay for tomorrow’s chosen funeral at today’s prices.
- Flexibility of payment. You may choose to pay the full price now or by installments.
Childers Woodgate Funeral Services provides pre-organised, prepaid funeral arrangements in conjunction with Flexible Funeral Benefits Pty Ltd of Bundaberg. Just ask for a further information on this service.
Companies that can assist with funeral bonds:
Sureplan Friendly Society: http://www.sureplanfuneralinsurance.com.au/
Foresters Friendly Society: http://www.forestersfs.com.au/
Flexible Funeral Pty Ltd: Flexible Funerals Brochure